{"id":4060,"date":"2010-06-07T01:20:20","date_gmt":"2010-06-07T01:20:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lillilewis.wordpress.com\/?p=5"},"modified":"2010-06-07T01:20:20","modified_gmt":"2010-06-07T01:20:20","slug":"open-for-business-so-to-speak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.folkrockdiva.com\/2020\/blog\/open-for-business-so-to-speak\/","title":{"rendered":"Open for Business&#8230;so to speak&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ok, so I&#8217;m not gonna draw this out. \u00a0My beautiful mom recently had the idea that I might get some pleasure out of writing about music, and even more so if I found a way to include others. \u00a0My wonderful Mama Bear said I should do it &#8220;because of my beautiful life.&#8221; \u00a0So here it is, my very own Life and Music Corner, finally open for business.<\/p>\n<p>See, for years I&#8217;ve had people calling me at all hours of the night, asking me questions about music like &#8220;what <em>is<\/em> that time signature in Bobby McFerrin&#8217;s &#8216;Stars&#8217; from Hush&#8221; or &#8220;what makes that chord progression in the Faur\u00e9 piano quartet so magical?!?!&#8221; \u00a0I wish I could say they ask me because they think I&#8217;m smart, but I know deep down it&#8217;s because they know in their bones that music is my obsession, and that I&#8217;ll satisfy their curiosity because they know I&#8217;ll find everything that catches their attention worth a little (or a lot) of my own.<\/p>\n<p>See, I loooove music. \u00a0Former students of mine have reported they think I couldn&#8217;t live without it. \u00a0My nephew used to plead with me when I&#8217;d begin my daily practice, &#8220;<em>please<\/em> auntie&#8230;<em>please<\/em> don&#8217;t go into the <em><strong>vortex!!!!<\/strong><\/em>&#8221; (insert wavy scooby-doo arms). \u00a0But this love is something I&#8217;ve always taken for granted. \u00a0It isn&#8217;t until recently that I&#8217;ve even begun to uncover why this might be.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s my theory: music is the study and practice of co-existence. \u00a0We humans have a fairly developed story when it comes to existence. \u00a0Whether you&#8217;re a big bang theorist or a creationist, first there was nothing, then there was something, and the how and why of it expands from there. Although science, philosophy and the world&#8217;s major religions all seem to point towards the truths of interdependence, when we go to talk about it, a lot of us just don&#8217;t buy it. \u00a0We want to be selfish and we want more and more to create a mythology about self-interest. \u00a0I get that, and that&#8217;s why I&#8217;m so thankful for music.<\/p>\n<p>Music, in its most basic form is the study of one thing in relationship to another. \u00a0Whether it&#8217;s one note next to another (melody), on top of another (harmony) or fixed in specific time (rhythm), \u00a0music doesn&#8217;t exist outside of &#8220;relationship.&#8221; \u00a0Miles Davis said &#8220;there is no such thing as a wrong note. \u00a0Everything depends on what you do with it.&#8221; \u00a0Even a single note sustained by a single person requires a relationship &#8211; a relationship with breath, a relationship with an instrument, a vibration to a resonator, etc. Relationship! \u00a0Nothing musical can happen without it.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve ever been in the room with a great spiritual master you experience a certain harmony around them. \u00a0Everything seems to be a ok. \u00a0The same is true when great music masters, practitioners, are making music together. \u00a0There&#8217;s an intangible euphoria that is sometimes so palpable, the idealists among us feel it could &#8220;save the world!&#8221; \u00a0We see and experience the grand <em>possibilities<\/em> of co-existence and it lifts us.<\/p>\n<p>We are even able to learn among neophytes who&#8217;s self-interest is still firmly on display when they attempt to play with others. \u00a0In these circumstances, and I think we&#8217;ve all been there, while we are attempting to appreciate their effort (perhaps in our better moments), we experience the <em>value<\/em> of a good relationship, the value of a &#8220;harmonious&#8221; expression of space, time, matter, etc.<\/p>\n<p>That doesn&#8217;t mean we expect or demand that all music be &#8220;pretty&#8221; or easy to experience, but we learn to recognize harmonious relationship in a visceral way, and the more practice we have at perceiving this harmony, the more the body and mind lends itself to subtlety, nuance, a more challenging palate. \u00a0We learn to be curious about what we may not initially understand. \u00a0Eventually, we may even learn to be excited by it!<\/p>\n<p>Music gives us a way to practice the big deal of &#8220;co-existence&#8221; without even trying. \u00a0We have not choice in the matter. \u00a0For better or for worse, it happens to us whenever it is in the room, and that makes music a big deal to me.<\/p>\n<p>So this blog is intended to open a conversation about music, about life, about whatever is a big deal to the people who decide to hang out here with me. \u00a0I want to know your questions, whatever they may be&#8230; Who&#8217;s first?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Even a single note sustained by a single person requires a relationship &#8211; a relationship with breath, a relationship with an instrument, a vibration to a resonator, etc. Relationship!  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